Apache, ColdFusion 8

I want to install apache and coldfusion 8 on my mac so that I have a complete development environment on this machine. I enabled web sharing which I think is apache and It works. But I can't find the apache directories. It looks like you have to make hidden directories and files viewable and I did that as instructed here:

Viewing hidden files on a Mac

But I still can't figure out where the http.conf apache file is. This is not easy so far, unless I am just missing it.